In Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Jacob’s gives great insight into the life of an African American (mulatto) slave woman. Her gender plays a huge role in different things she experienced as a slave. Being an African American (mulatto) slave meant being at the bottom of the social ladder and adding female in front of that title meant even more prosecution. Jacob’s paints the picture of her tragic life and the struggles that she had to endure because she was a woman slave. It amazes me that this type of treatment took place in a nation that was founded on the ideas of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Obviously there were extensive measurements that needed to be taken to ensure these rights to all races and peoples, and it incredible that America has come so far.
Jacob’s is restricted in numerous circumstances because of her gender. First of all, since she is a slave woman, she is restricted in whom she can marry. At the beginning of the story, she falls in love with a free African American, but her owner will not allow her to marry him because she is a slave woman. She could only marry a slave man and her master does not give her an option, he says, “if you must have a husband, you may take up with one of my slaves” (773). One of the main themes that Jacob’s emphasizes is the idea that, “the child shall follow the conditions of the mother, not the father” (780). This places restrictions on women because most women did not want their children to have to endure the life they were apart of, but if masters had relations with his slaves, and they became pregnant, the mother was responsible for the child. The woman could not ensure a better life for her baby because he/she would be born into a life of slavery.
The power relationship between women and men during this time period, especially between a slave woman and her master were colossal. The difference was night and day. In Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Jacob’s displays this power struggle in the relationship that she has with Dr. Flint. The master is in control; he is the ruler over the slaves and more specifically the women slaves. He has the ability and authority to do what he wishes. He can have sexual relations with any of his women slaves and treat them as he please-like dirt, less than dirt. Jacob’s describes the way Dr. Flint looks at her by explaining, “no animal ever watched its pray more narrowly than he watched me” (774). He was predator and she was his pray. She was at his mercy and he had complete power. He treated her and watched her as if she were an animal; this also displays the idea of dehumanizing the African American race. The relationship between Jacob’s and Dr. Flint only change after Jacob’s runs away and resorts into hiding. While in hiding Dr. Flint still had power over Jacob’s but in a different form. He still could instill the fear factor into Jacob’s and for this reason she remained in hiding. His power/ male dominance power is still present, even after there is not contact between the two characters. And then finally after Dr. Flint dies and Jacob’s receives her freedom the power struggle dies down.
I believe that Jacob’s tries to resist the gender roles that society has stamped on her life. She wants to be an independent woman. She can read and she can write, which was uncommon for a woman, much a less a slave woman. She does not want to be confined to the life of slavery. She resists her master in the beginning and does want to obey him because she values her self worth and dignity. As a mother, she resists her roles a little because she leaves her children and goes into hiding. From the story, you can tell that she desires to be with her children, yet she still decides to go into hiding and abandon her children for sometime. This defiles gender roles because the mother was usually the caregiver especially when the father was a white man. She had sole responsibility of the children, however Jacob’s still decides to go into hiding to escape percussion.
Gender was a large aspect of life during this time, especially for women. I find it very telling that Jacob’s expresses, “ when they told me my new-born babe was a girl, my heart was heavier than it had ever been before. Slavery is terrible for men; but it is far more terrible for women” (780). This quote displays the difference between gender and degree in which mistreatment was felt. Women suffered the most difficulty. They were abused sexually, mentally, and physically on countless occasions. It is incredible that this took place and people did not see how awful these women were being treated. Before Jacob’s baby girl was born she was in morning because she knew what kind of life her daughter would have to endure. I cannot imagine as a mother knowing the mistreatment your daughter will go through in the future and there is nothing you can do to stop it from happening. Jacob’s opened my eyes to what it would really be like to be a woman during this time period especially as a slave. She was the lowest of lowest and was treated even worst.